Right... Um, basically - in the group I came from, different people got assigned to different tasks or responsibilities. And I got... unlucky, obviously.
Yeah. Honestly, it's kind of like... I know that my group had important reasons that we had to do it. And I heard that was true in the camp, too. I know the end result was the same no matter our motivations, but... I think I'd still rather have that than the system you came from, where people did it despite never having to.
Sorry. I didn't mean to imply you made the wrong choice or anything... I don't think there's a right way for these things to go. And - were you hoping that if it wasn't forced, maybe nobody would do it, or...?
A little of that, sure. Mostly we had no idea what we were doing. [a beat.] It's okay. This way the blame is on just us. I wouldn't uh, I wouldn't want to give other people that burden.
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[help she doesn't know what a role is]
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I uh, I heard about something like that from the summer camp one, too.
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But it's - horrible either way.
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... Yeah, maybe it would've been better if we'd done it that way.
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Sorry. I didn't mean to imply you made the wrong choice or anything... I don't think there's a right way for these things to go. And - were you hoping that if it wasn't forced, maybe nobody would do it, or...?
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A little of that, sure. Mostly we had no idea what we were doing. [a beat.] It's okay. This way the blame is on just us. I wouldn't uh, I wouldn't want to give other people that burden.
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Hmm, how about we talk about something different? Are you going to need help with anything in particular tomorrow?
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Well - I at least got to watch other people try to figure it out every week, so I think I've got the basic process down, at least. What about you?